Today was eventful, to say the least. One might think I’d choose to write about visiting the Taj Mahal at sunrise, or the huge breakfast I consumed afterwards (an omelette half the size of the plate filled with tomatoes and onions, a gigantic pancake wrapped around a banana with chocolate poured on top, and two pieces of toast), shocking the tour guide. He thought I couldn’t do it. How silly, I can out-eat him, why is he doubting. I could write about how as I sit here typing this up, all but one person out of the entire group is down here in the lobby abusing the rarity of wifi.
But no, that’s not what I’m going to write about. I’m instead going to tell you why our guide is quietly sitting in the corner of a couch down here with all of us, punching away at the screen of his phone. I’m going to tell you why he is soaking up the time with us instead of retiring to his room, per usual.
That would be because today, as I was walking back to the hotel alone and most of the group was heading into McDonald’s for lunch, our guide—the sweetest and best one around, FYI—was locked in the bus by the drivers and beaten up.
I swear, everyone says that India is such a gentle country, that the people are not violent. And I have found that to be true: except for the violence I’ve witnessed and/or heard about. I am trying to believe these are exceptions to the general rule. I think I do believe that. But I just don’t understand why I’m seeing it so much.
Our guide’s name is Duschyant. I was not with the group after he came in when it happened, I was back here at the hotel. But apparently he was shaking and crying and obviously upset. He said no one had ever threatened him the way the bus drivers had, much less had a fist raised at him. Essentially what happened was that the bus drivers wanted to take us to places where they would get a kick back if we bought anything. The bus drivers are hired by the tour company, so obviously Duschyant wasn’t going to be okay with that or let it happen. So the drivers had been threatening Duschyant without any of us knowing.
And today they actually pulled him in the bus, locked him in, and started kicking, hitting, slapping him. One got a stick and beat him with that.
It’s absolutely infuriating and sickening. All for money. In addition to assaulting him, they also stole the 7000 rupees (about 160$) in his wallet. The funny thing is that Duschyant had already talked to us about tipping them nicely tomorrow, our last day being driven around by them. Now they are getting no money from us and will hopefully lose their jobs.
I was so glad to hear that the group could give Duschyant some comfort and help him through it. They came back to the hotel after lunch and someone gave him half a sleeping pill. He rested and then we went to dinner because he said he wanted to be with us. That would be why he is still down here, talking to everyone and interacting. I think he’s afraid to be alone and I don’t blame him for a second. Everyone is taking their computers over to show him pictures of their families, friends, cats and dogs. Homes. Countries. Even pictures from this trip. And he just takes it all in.
He had ice cream at dinner to make himself feel better. I just want to give him a hug and then go scream.
On our way to dinner, the drivers actually came up to us and tried to get us to go on their bus. Duschyant had other cars for us to take, but they still hovered. One of the loudmouths of the group said to one of them, “Please go away, we do not want you around.” Never loved that girl more.
I rode in the back of the car with the man from Portugal. He’s the quietest out of everyone, even me, but he was visibly upset by the drivers expecting us to go with them and told me that was ridiculous. His wife was the one who told me what had happened, and she said she’d actually had to calm her husband down because he was ready to go fight back. I’m glad that didn’t happen, but I’m proud of these people. I’m proud to be a part of them and I’m proud of the fact that this is so upsetting to everyone. I’m proud that Duschyant wants to be around us, that we give some kind of comfort or maybe (hopefully) a slight feeling of being protected. That we would defend him. If any of us had known he was being threatened by them earlier in the week, we would not have left him alone with the drivers.
Tonight was the first night that I really opened up to one of the younger women in the group, and it felt sort of wonderful. It’s been a week that we’ve been together, tomorrow. This tour is already half over and I’m going to be sad to say goodbye. We’ve become a little family and today only solidified that.
Turns out the moral law—code, nature, whatever you want to call it—is universal. Regardless of color, age, sex, or culture, today we all gathered round to defend and protect someone who had been wronged gravely.
That is the way things are meant to be.